Hi Jay,
Is this an ASP.NET Web application that you are running?
You should be able to remote debug this application using the attach to process option under Debug if you have the Visual Studio remote debugging support installed on your remote machine.
You state that you can step through the code and set breakpoints correct? This would indicate that the symbols are being loaded. You can check this by opening up the option Debug-->Windows-->Modules to see what is currently loaded.
How do you currently have this setup?
Thanks.